While I move through the days…

January heaviness is keeping me slow as I move through days. I wake up, I sit around, I eat. I have started going to ballet, yoga and pilates again and I enjoy those moments of human connection and of using my body and then the heaviness engulfs me again.

I listen to audio books, I watch series on the laptop, I sit and watch the birds in the garden, I play games on my tablet.

And I read stuff online.

As I move through the days, life feels like dark, sticky treacle and my mind goes to all kinds of places. So many strands of thoughts, so many layers of consciousness working away at various painful things. Processing, processing, processing.

As I move through the days I try to simultaneously experience and process the omnipresent pain and powerlessness. Because if I don’t I feel like I might drown and dissappear.

So I sleep (so grateful that I do sleep!) wake up and move through the hours of the day. I move through this moment, this hour, this day. One at a time. One at a time.

There are so many things I want to keep writing about. Things that I’ve written before but I continue to feel so passionate about that I don’t mind repeating myself into eternity.

But I am not writing. It feels like too much. Too much sharing, too much anger and too much vulnerability. Too much caring about things that I can do nothing about.

So I read and enjoy the words that other people have found to express themselves and share stories.

When the first virus panic hit and chaos and uncertainty was met with cries for restrictions, control and self-sacrifice, I kept asking myself: what kind of world do I want to live in and how can I be part of co-creating that world? And if I am to die soon, what kind of world do I want to die in? What kind of life do I want to live while I am dying? What really matters when we are faced with our mortality? If staying alive at any cost is an illusion then what do we do?

What if there are things much more important than survival? Survival of the individual, survival of the species.

What if there are things much more important than staying safe? Safe from harm, safe from illness, safe from chaos and safe from loss.

What if how we live and die is much more important than whether we live or die….

Charles Eisenstein https://charleseisenstein.substack.com/p/into-the-space-between

The collective response to Covid so far has been to deepen our immersion in the old story of Separation, fear, and control. Part of that story is that progress means advancing the human capacity to manage and control everything outside of us. Better security means controlling terrorists and criminals. Better living means controlling bad habits and addictions. Better health means controlling germs and our own bodily processes. At the present writing, it has become obvious that the regime of intensifying control will not bring its promised paradise.

Tessa Dunlop https://unherd.com/2021/11/how-britain-betrayed-the-elderly/?=refinnar

She stared blankly at my obligatory disposable apron and muttered “it’s time they uninvented plastic.”

Kate Clanchy https://unherd.com/2022/01/what-lockdown-took-from-my-parents/

By “fall in with it” he meant: performatively join in any rituals of shunning, add to the tangible fear. As a personal protest, he insisted on continuing to walk each day to the mini-market to collect the Guardian, leaning on a stick, chin to chest like a condemned prisoner, saying good morning to each person who stepped wide of him.


    • I thought I was just going to put together some links and quotes but felt good to be able to get into writing a bit. Thank you for your encouragements and comments. I hope it is possible to get the allergy card and I sincerely hope the wave of authoritarian approaches is at its peak and that it will crash

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    • same here – the German health minister was heard saying (about the mandatory vacc ‘oh e need to do that ehm eh mmh in April or Mai…’ – did not sound very assertive to me, not even confident 😀 — as or the UK, i the chair of committee for constitutional affairs is accusing the PM of unethical behaviour (with evidence) then the writing of crash is on the wall; trouble is that PM is now using liberalising covid measures back into the good books with his subjects 🤨


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